When we are emotional and down if some one gets hurts us we tend to become so vulnerable. We want to revenge and do something beyond bad on our enemy. We may feel that we are not happy or contented until we get even. But are you really happy?
Most people I know does not happy with enemy…. As the book of Romans once said do not repay anyone evil for evil, live peacefully. Because the Lord will repay….
17 Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everyone. 18 If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. 19 Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: “It is mine to avenge; I will repay,”[d] says the Lord.20 On the contrary:
“If your enemy is hungry, feed him;
if he is thirsty, give him something to drink.
In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head.”[e]
21 Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.
Learn to forgive what ever circumstances it is, remember God forgive your sins and by forgiving you He gave His life to save you for your sin. Why not forgiving other people…It is also said in Matthew 6:14-15For if you forgive men when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.Andalso in Matthew 18:21-22, forgive our brother and sister seventy times seven….Matthew 18:21-22Then Peter came and said to Him, “Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me and I forgive him? Up to seven times?” 22Jesus said to him, “I do not say to you, up to seven times, but up to seventy times seven.…And forgiving enemy will never cost you anything, it doesn’t mean your weak but your strong enough to do it so…So be happy and LEARN TO FORGIVE…..